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Use the story to begin honest conversations about kindness, respect, and empathy.
Words that Heal, Words that Hurt
Words That Heal, Words That Hurt
A powerful children’s book created to help families, educators, and caring adults talk with children about hurtful language, kindness, history, and the power of words.
Written by Kennesha Gill, PhD
Illustrated by Skenikah D. Baxter
Children hear words before they fully understand their history or impact. This book gives caring adults a gentle, age-appropriate way to explain why harmful words are not okay and how children can choose words that heal instead of hurt.
Use the story to begin honest conversations about kindness, respect, and empathy.
Support classroom discussions about language, inclusion, history, and belonging.
Help children process hurtful words and build emotional awareness in a safe space.
Create space for children and adults to learn, reflect, and grow together.
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